Intersex (For Lack of a Better Word)

Intersex (For Lack of a Better Word)

Thea Hillman / Jan 23, 2020

Intersex For Lack of a Better Word In Hillman s world the surer you become about who you are the vulnerable you get The San Francisco Bay Guardian Hillman s writing is sexy because it s smart and refuses to simplify things Fabula Mag

  • Title: Intersex (For Lack of a Better Word)
  • Author: Thea Hillman
  • ISBN: 9781933149240
  • Page: 414
  • Format: Paperback
  • In Hillman s world, the surer you become about who you are, the vulnerable you get The San Francisco Bay Guardian Hillman s writing is sexy because it s smart and refuses to simplify things Fabula Magazine Hillman s utterly unabashed memoirowcases both the personal, embodied realities of intersex, and the social and political milieus that shape them Inter In Hillman s world, the surer you become about who you are, the vulnerable you get The San Francisco Bay Guardian Hillman s writing is sexy because it s smart and refuses to simplify things Fabula Magazine Hillman s utterly unabashed memoirowcases both the personal, embodied realities of intersex, and the social and political milieus that shape them Intersex, too, is gorgeously written Women s Review of Books It s utterly impossible to not be spellbound by performer activist Thea Hillman, in person or in print A must read Curve There s nothing else in print like this amazing and courageous book Patrick Califia, author of Sex Changes The Politics of Transgenderism An important and wonderfully disarming book Poetic, political, and deeply personal Beth Lisick, author of Helping Me Help MyselfIntersex For Lack of a Better Word chronicles one person s search for self in a world obsessed with normal What is intersex According to the Intersex Society of North America, the word describes someone born with sex chromosomes, genitalia, or an internal reproductive system that are neither clearly male nor clearly female In first person prose as intimate as a diary, Thea Hillman redefines memoir in a series of compelling stories that take a no holds barred look at sex, gender, family, and community Whether she s pondering quirky family tendencies Drag , reflecting on queerness Another , or recounting scintillating adventures in San Francisco s sex clubs, Hillman s brave and fierce vision for cultural and societal change shines through.According to a special report by the Traditional Values Coalition entitled Homosexual Urban Myth, award winning writer Thea Hillman is a radical who conducts erotic readings to promote the homosexual revolution Thea offers presentations about sex and gender and performs her work at colleges and festivals around the country She lives in Oakland, California.

    Intersex Intersex people are born with any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals that, according to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights, do not fit the typical definitions for male or female bodies Such variations may involve genital ambiguity, and combinations of chromosomal genotype and sexual phenotype other than Shifting the Paradigm of Intersex Treatment Intersex Download a pdf of this document that can be printed on a single sheet, double sided. Shifting the Paradigm of Intersex Treatment Prepared by Alice Dreger, Ph.D for the Intersex Society of What s the history behind the intersex rights movement Beginning in the late nineteenth century, medicine became the primary means for dealing with intersex Before then, the vast majority of people with intersex conditions went unnoticed by legal, religious, or medical establishments and only a few cases per year came to the attention of authorities. Notable Ambiguous Genitalia Statistics HRF Intersex Conditions Being intersex isn t usually a problem for the child born with this condition, but the diagnosis can be delayed because there are several definitions in place for what qualifies a child as having ambiguous genitalia. Darlington Statement Intersex Human Rights Australia Mar , The Darlington Statement is a joint consensus statement by Australian and Aotearoa New Zealand intersex organisations and independent advocates, agreed in March It sets out the priorities and calls to action by the intersex human rights movement in our countries. WHO Gender and Genetics Genetically Determined Disorders of Sexual Differentiation Typical sexual development is the result of numerous genes, and mutation in any of these genes can result in AIS Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome Support Group Nov , Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome AIS is one of a number of biological intersex conditions Intersex results from a variation in the embryological development of the reproductive tract, often determined by a known genetic mutation. A field guide to Pride flags Clare Bayley A field guide to Pride flags Clare Bayley s personal website and blog. Femslash Femslash also known as f f slash, femmeslash, altfic and saffic is a subgenre of slash fan fiction which focuses on romantic and or sexual relationships between female fictional characters Typically, characters featured in femslash are heterosexual in the canon universe however, similar fan fiction about lesbian or bisexual female characters is commonly labeled as femslash for Gender and Sexual Orientation Diversity in Children and The stress and stigma of being a sexual orientation or gender identity minority can increase developmental risks for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, queer, asexual or intersex children and youth.

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    1. You made me cry on the bus, Thea Hillman, for which you are in trouble. I've never been to a performance of the Vagina Monologues because I kind of just assume it will trigger the shit out of me, but your response to your own issues with a performance you saw was absolutely fuckin gorgeous. Anyway, yeah. Wow. This was an intense book that it was hard to pick up sometimes, not because the specifics of Ms. Hillman's experience are similar to my own, but the feelings that come with a lot of what sh [...]

    2. this is a fantastically beautiful book and you should read it, partly because it's fantastically beautiful (i love it when poets write memoirs), partly because every other sentence is quotable and you will carry them around with you for a long time, partly because it really draws you into the world of intersex and, while entirely demystifying the status of intersex people (who are just like everyone else -- in the limited sense in which anyone is like anyone else -- and way more frequent than yo [...]

    3. This book lays some of our strongest social taboos to bare in a truly beautiful, artful way. I was stunned by how frank it was. If you're at all open to discussions of gender as more than a static binary value, this is a must read that'll probably change how you think.

    4. *2012: I've been meaning to come back and re-examine this book. I went to reading it with assumptions and expectations that were very amateur as far as a reviewer. Since part of my studies revolve around literature, I'm kind of embarrassed I didn't read this book properly, understanding it's genre, author and it's primary focus. After this book I found that I don't tend to like memoir. I don't know that this matters, but I idealize polyamory and the ability of people to be open and consensual. I [...]

    5. It's easy to tell that Hillman is a poet (she's a San Francisco Poetry Slam champion) and performance artist. I can imagine her reading each of the essays in this book in front of an audience.Hillman writes of the ache, exclusion, and incredible confusion associated with growing up intersex. I agree with another reviewer who did not like the use of the second person in some of the essays (I too prefer first or third person); however, it raises the constant conundrum of gender pronouns when it co [...]

    6. So fantastic. I recommend this book to everyone. It's so beautiful and intimate. Normalizes "intersex" in a way that hasn't been done before.

    7. I loved this book, and I love the author. Which seems the only reasonable response to such a calm, considered and candid tale of the author's life, and to her plea that we should love ourselves the way we are. Hillman - or, if I may, Thea finds herself to be a part of the intersex community, and yet she is also very much part of a global community that includes us all. Thea recounts her life story in short chapters with single-word titles, unfolding and reflecting on a growth that wasn't linear. [...]

    8. Set out much like Roxane Gay’s ‘Hunger’, this book is split into 47 chapters, each dealing with a different aspect of Thea Hillman’s life, to a greater or lesser degree.Much is given over to Hillman’s sex life and the subsequent relationships, but there is much more to it; the growing intersex activism; the rejection of surgery for the sake of making people ‘normal’; the hurt and pain caused to individuals through no fault of their own. She moves in and out and between different co [...]

    9. This is a beautiful book. It will challenge some people, but that is as it should be. Thea Hillman is a gifted writer.

    10. I had to read this wondering if the author was a relative, and to understand people I met. Moderately engaging.

    11. I first heard about this book when I was researching "Manic D press." When Gottlieb mentioned Hillman in an interview, I knew I had to read this book.I knew what "intersex" was before reading this book, but I didn't know a lot about it. I would not suggest this book for people who do not know what intersex is. Instead, this is an exercise in the nuances of the identity, explored in one woman's very personal reflection. I found that the most rewarding reflections on the intersex experience were n [...]

    12. This is a beautifully written memoir and I think people should read it.However, I am so tired of casual, ~*progressive*~ homophobia.‘Gay’ is women loving women and men loving men who want to be recognized as couples and be able to get the same rights and privileges as straight couples. Gays read Out magazine, cry at Gay Pride marches, watch Queer as Folk, and think that bisexual and transgender people are ruining everyone’s chances to be perceived as normal. They believe that if we could a [...]

    13. Hillman is a queer intersex woman with congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH), which can lead to ambiguous genitalia and secondary sex characteristics - but not for Hillman, whose CAH was caught and medicated early on. _Intersex_ is a collection of intimate, evocative essays looking at her own and her family's struggles to come to terms with intersex, and her identity and experiences in intersecting queer, trans, and intersex communities. The most successful essays reflect on the complexities and [...]

    14. Thea Hillman's book is thoroughly beautiful, written in a way that makes you feel like you're her one and only confidant, not just a reader. The book is structured as a series of short essays, some of which are obviously based on talks she has given in her career as an activist, performer, public speaker, and educator.I think a bigger, more mainstream publisher (the book is published by Manic D Press) would have really pushed Thea to stick more strictly to the theme of growing up and coping as i [...]

    15. Thea Hillman explores her history with the medicalization of her body in receiving a diagnosis of Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia, and her eventual discovery of a community of people who identify as Intersex. There are also some interesting think-pieces comparing Intersex conditions with being Transgender.The genesis of several of these pieces in the spoken word realm is clear, and I can imagine Thea's diction in reading them.I'm knocking off a star because I have a problem with stuff written in [...]

    16. This book was intimate, poetic, honest, revelatory, and ultimately beautiful in the most realistic way. The book structure felt somewhat blog-like which made it easier for me to process. When I finished, I felt like I knew Hillman in the same way I have known bloggers I've followed for months. I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in gender studies, the intersex community, queer life and politics, or vulnerable storytelling, but I must warn that this book is full of candid descriptio [...]

    17. Hillman's exploration of her own challenges and sense-making as an intersex person is an excellent work for anyone better trying to understand intersex. Filled with memoiric chapters, poetry, and other personal writing, the book crafts a nuance understanding of the battles one faces when the dominant culture has denied you space and personhood.If you enjoyed this review, feel free to check out my other reviews and writings atBy Any Other Nerd /

    18. This is a series of mostly short essays, with the occasional poem, or journal entry thrown in. The pieces are likely mostly those she wrote for and published elsewhere, and they seem included here without editing, so sometimes the reader is subjected to the same musings or explanations multiple times. There isn't really a coherent, linear narrative but you get a good sense of the author's life and lived experience. It's interesting to get to peek inside the head of an intersex person, to read he [...]

    19. What Thea lacks in flare or substantial writing style, she makes up for with intimacy and boldness of description. Her tales are certainly not conservative in taste, nor are they meant to appeal to Tory sensibilities, but one is given a genuine sense of adventure when following the narrator into seedy sex clubs and scenes of exhibitionism. When she directs her monologue to specific people, namely past lovers or her mother, she brings to the table a genuine sense of closeness and sometimes tragic [...]

    20. Hillman's memoir is poetic, honest, real, and educational. She talks about what it means and what it's like to be a queer person- she hit the points about why I like using this word in a reclaimed sense. I picked it up in the bookstore because it looked interesting, but I read it cover to cover in less than 24 hours. Before reading this book, I didn't know that Intersex used to be considered under the Trans umbrella. Hillman was one of the people who fought to make Intersex its own category. I w [...]

    21. Oh, the queer collection of personal essays. You were a genre I couldn't live without in my late teens and early twenties. And now, it feels like you have nothing new to say to me, and yet I persist in reading you. There are a few standout essays in here, but the collection is uneven, and mostly not very groundbreaking. If you've ever read an essay by a queer person from the Bay Area (and what queer person hasn't, these days?), you won't find anything new here.

    22. Intersex Awareness Day is in a couple of days. For more info on intersex issues go to - isna. I liked this book, it's a personal history of not just the author's intersex identity, but of some of the recent activism in california for intersex awareness and rights. The only thing is that I don't like books that are really a series of short short essays/stories/ramblings/blurbs, that are disconnected.

    23. This book wasn't what I was expecting. The story focused on the author's confusion about whether she was 'intersex' or not. It raised questions about gender and identity and our need to belong, ie fit into a box that others (and science) will understand. Why she couldn't just be? A bit bogged down in parts but an interesting read. It broadened my understanding of what intersex people experience as they try to make sense of the world and how to fit into it.

    24. The author is a poet, and this poet is beautifully written whether she is retelling a touching childhood memory or describing a graphic sexual experience. At times I felt like she got a little to technical about her work with different activist groups when I was really just curious about her own personal experience. Still, eye opening and interesting look into the world of intersex.

    25. It's an engaging series of stories and I read most of it in two days. My favorite parts were her Community chapter, the discussion of her childhood, and her relationship to "intersex" as an identity. There were several chapters that were breathtaking but most were just pleasant to read and not spectacular.

    26. I liked this but i wasn't blown away by it. There were some interesting moments--i especially liked where Hillman made some parallels between intersex and disability. I'm glad it's out there. Would have liked to have seen a race analysis.

    27. I really wanted to LOVE this book. However, I found the author's writing a bit disjointed and sometimes difficult to follow. Still, an interesting collection of essays and writings about her life and growing up intersex.

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